I think that story would be lovely to write. I think it has a strong temporal and contextual component – the timing for each of us (u recovering; me parenting) which like, 5 years ago would have meant v little and had we met 5 years ago it would not have happened… And maybe it would mean nothing 5 years from now. That’s our motivation and state of mind behind it. But other people are doing it with us now and benefiting from it and they all have different stories…but the intersection of yours and mine and how we made something of it is special