Thanks, Ronald. Good points about hormones and meeting future partners (though I did not meet mine that way, i had originally thought i could not possibly marry someone who hadn’t gone to the same uni – it sounds arrogant and exclusionary, but u’d understand if u were here n Egypt and 18 years old). Umm, i was reading your post (wondering why wordpress asked me to approve it, since i thought you’d posted before) thinking you were Ronald from rhizo14 but your gravatar has a different last name, so was not so sure 🙂 you “sound” like him 🙂 wondered for a while, then looked at your google plus name, and i am 99% sure it is you 🙂 how come u have two diff surnames? Or is one ur middle name? Was about to google Dutch naming then gave up 🙂