Jeffrey, good point about the baggage that comes with words. Words categorize and in medicine can distort reasoning. Reading the list of conditions I have the very last one is “Anxiety” which to many type A personality doctors = weak. As a result, my last heart failure was misdiagnosed right to the last second as some sort freak-out.
Since I practice exclusion myself I think the plea to unconventionality should be replaced by something like the sloppy convenience of being inattentive. Or not caring to concern oneself over our behaviour to some people. I can’t give my attention to everyone so I disqualify people who have hurt me and treat them with indifference. It’s not a perfect system of course:-)