It’s rather fair, for all the western cultural references I likely drop, that I had to look up in google to find out what is a “hajibi swimsuit” just to be sure I understood what you were writing about. I’m not ignorant of the reasons for headscarves and the hajib (My one visit to the middle east was to Qatar, not sure where what I saw in custom was on the spectrum of tradition).

So what I think I understand is that the swimsuit is quasi marginal as to what you feel acceptable to honor tradition, yet at the same time balancing with wanting your daughter to enjoy the beach?

I am not seeking an explanation, just letting you know I’ve read the post several times, still not fully sure I understand, but appreciating more the nuances of culture you share.