“That is more suitable that they will be known and not be abused.” It might be that my male wiring rules my inability to regard women in revealing dress seriously. But is it an abuse of intelligence to be distracted or seemingly disrespectful when my inner teenager can’t stop gazing. But is also phony and a false representation of myself to say I’m not noticing.

I don’t intend to imply I’m excusing my male weakness of gazing, only that this foolishness draws both parties to underestimation—maybe the worst thing we place on a person is to diminish but assumption by “looks”? A community where each “be known and not abused” by the belittling and separating power that should NOT represent is a strong community. It might be that women know from some men who are controlling that underestimation is the first tool of disrespect and abuse?