You’ve done an excellent job here of outlining issues like this that continue to plague this field. I’m incredibly guilty of these same actions and I constantly have to remind myself when I read and think about this that it’s not a personal attack on me, it’s not personal. It’s not about me. In any given day I’d tell people I *want* them to call me out when something I do sucks. And yet, in my head I know that my reaction is going to be defensive. In any case that you so much for writing this. Every day I feel like I learn a bit more about what it truly means to be inclusive and this really resonated with me today.