I like the ongoing reflections in order to think about the keynote. It is a wonderful thing to do this. In relation with insiders and outsiders, my view on this is that it is a choice we make with the world. It takes tolerance and a wide very wide view with all the different communities if one wants not to be an outsider. Being an insider takes from us the courage to, sometimes, ask if we can enter, although it would seem at first sight we are not invited. Living far, very far away from my home country, has taught me through experience and constant inner questioning if I am being left out or if I haven’t made the right question to see if I can step in. There is fear, embarrassment to say the wrong things or be taken the wrong way, and so much more. The best gathering is that were every one feels welcome although it could be that he or she could not assist for different reasons.
Opening the party to everyone is always richer, so let’s say using Maha’s example of a non drinking alcohol person, a gathering can be organised for both, drinkers and non drinkers, in a neutral place and in a convenient timing, which as Maha said, never will be convenient for all, where both are able to respect each position but nevertheless have interesting and rich conversations where one holds a cup of wine and the other person holds a cup of water of a fizzy drink.
For me, it is matter of tolerance from all sides…and that is what I believe is the challenge!
It is already a challenge to be truly tolerant and compassionate with your growing up children (who you love to pieces) that could turn out to be in some respects fundamentally different than you, now imagine how challenging it could be with people we even don’t know.
Compassion, I believe, in its true sense, is the key to real peace 🙂
I am looking forward to hearing your key note Maha, and to hopefully share and have interesting conversations and time to chat informally 🙂