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Maha Bali’s blog about education

January 23, 2017
by Maha Bali

If You Need Me Between 4 and 10pm…

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If you need me between 4 and 10pm…and you aren’t my little kid, you gotta know… That’s her time. 

If it’s a social thing (in person or online), most days, she will be with me. If you need me alone, it’s gotta be before I leave work (so before 3pm) or after 10pm (when I am almost sure she will be asleep). Occasionally I can find an hour when she is doing activities. This is negotiable on her time, not yours.

If it’s a blurred line thing, like an unrecorded meeting to work on something with friends, or a Virtually Connecting session where I am not the main person, I can do it, but she might show up and you better not mind if she does. You will either like it or stay silent about it.

If it’s something formal, you really better not ask me to do it. You know why? Because she comes first and my wellbeing comes second. She comes first means I will not insist that she stay away from my screen for an hour while I do a webinar with you. I may need to make her something to eat during, take her to the bathroom, anything (usually there isn’t anyone else around to help). And I will not do a formal thing and risk looking unprofessional because I need to multitask childcare while doing your thing. There’s no reason to do it.

The worst thing you can ask me is to meet for 8pm for a formal thing. That’s the worst time because it’s around her bedtime. 

Best case scenario, I manage to get her into bed around 7-7.30pm, but there will be tears as she negotiates how many books to read and she asks for 6 and I give her 3. When, really, she has the right for 6. She’s even gone to bed early! And then i can’t guarantee she will be completely asleep by 8, so there will be so much stress for both of us.

Worst case scenario, I won’t get her into bed. I may or may not have someone to help care for her between 8-9, but because I usually allow her into hangouts while she is awake (and I am adamant on keeping this until she’s a bit older) she won’t usually understand to stay away. And she will show up. And I will feel uncomfortable. And there will be tension. And then when I am done, I still need to put her to bed and that will take some time (because past her regular bedtime). And then she’ll be asleep 2 hours later than usual. And that means difficulty waking up next morning. So both of us likely late for school/work.

So yeah. 

I’m not meeting anyone for anything at 8pm. And nothing formal between 4-10pm. 

I have had enough of these compromises. Until she is old enough to read to her own self in bed, I won’t do this. And even when she is older, she deserves some time with me to talk and laugh and play and cry and do whatever she wants. Or whatever I want.

January 19, 2017
by Maha Bali

Some Open Questions for #OpenLearning17

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They say when one door closes, another opens (or a window, maybe). But we don’t usually talk about how sometimes opening a particular door might actually close another. For the same people, or different ones.

Open/Shut flickr photo by sarae shared under a Creative Commons ( BY-ND ) license

I’m really looking forward to #openlearning17, with a bunch of really awesome people discussing different dimensions of open learning…

I’m particularly interested in asking questions about open for whom, by whom, for what purpose? Can we think about issues like access, and recognize how just being “open” does not mean we are necessarily making something accessible for others? Just by being “free” (as in gratis, zero cost to the user) does not mean everyone has equal access to it? I want to ask about the privilege of open, and what our responsibilities are when we have the privilege of open… how can we think critically about the different approaches of open learning, from OERs to open scholarship to open pedagogical practices…and these aren’t issues no one has talked about before, and I’m particularly influenced by the work of sava singh, Robin DeRosa and Catherine Cronin and others on this…

Could a social justice orientation to openness occasionally mean being closed to a privileged group in order to create openness for marginal groups? Why do we, and why should “we” care about advocating for openness for marginal groups? What are the most respectful ways to do that as allies, and what’s the role of the semi-privileged open educator who lies at the borders/intersections?

Looking forward to some deep discussions. inshallah

On a more practical note, check out Creative Commons new “one-click attribution” tool in beta

Also, do you know about cogdog’s Flickr CC attribution helper bookmarklet? That’s how easy it is to do attribution for CC Flickr images on your blog, as I’ve done above… it’s possibly my favorite tool EVER. Now if only I could get my students to use it 🙂

January 13, 2017
by Maha Bali

Striving for Digital Gold as Digital Alchemy #NetNarr

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Digital gold. Remixing cogdog photo Virtually Connecting is Fun flickr photo by ma_bali shared under a Creative Commons ( BY ) license

I don’t know much about alchemy, let alone making stuff up about digital alchemy… but I really did want to contribute to today’s Daily something from #NetNarr and because my video recording went chipmunk voice, I’m lucky that I had recorded the audio, so here it is… and I made an image as well 🙂

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January 9, 2017
by Maha Bali

Institutional Frustration

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Gosh I really need to get this off my chest.

So there was a time before I got my PhD and became faculty, before committees and taskforces.

For some odd reason, the institution asks us to do these committees and taskforces and put forth these processes. We discuss them with other faculty in different areas and decide together on something. And then no one wants to follow it. And then you’re like supposed to be the policeman of something you never even wanted to do in the first place.

I am trying to figure out if

  1. We should not interfere in the first place. I am a faculty developer offering non-judgmental support. I don’t want to work with someone who doesn’t want to be worked with 
  2. Interference should come from whoever at the top wants this stuff and can get folks to do it because really, I couldn’t care less.
  3. Faculty should be more involved. I don’t know how coz you can’t involve everyone 
  4. Governance is important and we should do these processes….but something in the process of creating the processes needs to change

It’s probably #4. What I don’t understand is…when people create processes then they themselves (or people who know the processes well) work in parallel outside of the processes. Ok wait. I understand why someone would prefer to NOT follow process. What I don’t understand is why people create them then when someone doesn’t follow it, no one cares. They just shrug. Which means this:

  • People create processes that some people follow (or these processes become barriers and people don’t do stuff)
  • Some people don’t follow process and get what they want coz no one stops them

So processes are a privilege that some people don’t follow and other people respect and the processes can become barriers or headaches for them. But not the others.

And in all of this… I don’t wanna be part of this game that I don’t understand. 

If someone consistently doesn’t follow processes they know well about or even helped set up, it’s gotta be either

  • They’re above the process
  • They couldn’t care less about the process
  • They maliciously put processes for other people to stumble on but theu themselves can move faster 

So…. Why?

If there’s a workaround for everything why can’t we just be honest about subjectivity and processlessness and just live in honest chaos. 

I am guessing like 2 people in the world will understand what this post is about. Unless everyone finds this as frustrating as I do.

January 6, 2017
by Maha Bali

Open Peer Review – Final batch of MLA keywords (including one of my curations)

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I’ve been working with Mia Zamora on curating the Network keyword (you may have seen our crowdsourcing call earlier) for the MLA Digital Pedagogy in the Humanities project (it feels like a book, but it’s more a collection of keywords). It’s an awesome project because different “curators” basically take a keyword they know a lot about, and explain what it is really briefly to potential newbies, and they curate 10 digital artifacts that someone new to the field could use to help them teach it.

We struggled a bit with choosing just 10 artifacts, and I blogged about that…because at some point I started to feel it was important to be “inclusive”. However, there were so many limitations on what could and could not be accepted for as an “artifact”… so some things got relegated to “additional readings” and some things had to be removed, or got referenced in the Works Cited but were not themselves key items. I hope we’ve done the keyword justice, keeping in mind that there was a different keyword “community”.

The extra awesome aspect of this is that, over phases, batches of keywords are “released” for open/public peer review – so anyone can give feedback on a keyword and the authors can then review based on that feedback. I’ve given feedback in previous batches – this is the last batch:

Final Batch of keywords: Open Peer Review Ends February 1, 2017

  • Authorship
  • Community College
  • Curation
  • Diaspora
  • Digital Divides (Annemarie Perez)
  • Disability
  • Future(s)
  • Gaming
  • Hashtag
  • Indigenous
  • Labor
  • Language Learning
  • Network (Mia Zamora and me)
  • Social Justice
  • Storytelling (Bryan Alexander)
  • Visualization

Only those keywords marked “Under Review” are open for comments at this time.

If this is your first exposure to this collection, you may be interested in PAST curations by some awesome people… like…

  • Hybrid (Jesse Stommel)
  • Affect (Liz Losh)
  • Race (Adeline Koh)
  • Annotation (Paul Schacht)
  • Access (George Williams)
  • Failure (Brian Croxall and Quinn Warnick)
  • Play (Mark Sample)
  • Online (Amy Collier)

And many more – these are just ones I’ve looked at myself and remember well… but you’ll find many more great ones there – useful for you and for anyone whose teaching you support 🙂 Love this project.

And looking forward to your feedback on ours 🙂

December 30, 2016
by Maha Bali

On Facebook, Driving and Control

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The digital isn’t magic. It isn’t mysterious. It’s regular human communication astride a new medium. There’s no need to make it more than it is. No need to lie or elaborate. Because in the digital, there’s wonder enough.

Sean Michael Morris 

This potentially rambling (but I have a hunch potentially enlightening) post is inspired by a comment Mike Caulfield wrote in response to a comment I wrote on his blog …anyway, where he compares the need for digital literacies in the age of fake news and Facebook…with driving and safety. What Mike says, I think, is that driving can cause death and one can try to reduce deaths from driving in two ways: train people to be better, more responsible drivers, or work on safer cars and roads. Obviously a combination is best. I am gonna take this analogy a little off on a tangent. I will explain in a minute.

This post also inspired by some recent discussion on Twitter around Facebook and what it means to stay or leave and how we should resist Facebook’s hegemony. (too many tweets and people involved to name, but initiated by Chris G, and includes Stephen Portell, Kate Bowles and Chuck Pearson among them).

So let me just say something about myself before I take Mike’s analogy into Facebook and all that

  1. I am a hypersocial person who is also an only child. This means I am really good at enjoying being alone, and simultaneously am energized by being with people. In my current personal circumstances with a young child (and previous circumstances of living abroad or being on maternity leave), social media is CENTRAL to my wellbeing. I understand this isn’t everyone’s situation 
  2. I don’t drive in Egypt but I drove almost every day for many miles when I lived in Houston and loved it. Driving in Houston was necessary. Driving in Egypt would have more cons than pros imho so I don’t do it and instead use my commute time to work to get lots of reading and writing done (that’s 3 extra hours of my day that you now know the secret to)
  3. I have a blogpost for DML CENTRAL coming out soon entitled Fake News Isn’t Your Main Problem (i put the link in when it went live). I won’t repeat the arguments of it here. It was written just before xmas holidays so that’s why it’s not out yet

On Driving

So here’s the way I am taking the driving analogy, ok? I will start w what I wrote to Mike as a comment on his blog

Egyptian women drive normally, but sometimes start late; patriarchal arguments against driving are “I trust you to drive well but don’t trust other people on the road”. Which is a fair argument, until you realize people who aren’t driving still trust someone else to drive FOR them, so that’s actually one more person you give control over to…so the argument breaks down and the solution would be to not go out at all (?). I went off on a tangent here but it might be a useful one. We don’t need to accept the premise of other people on the road, of course, or else we would all probably go crazy. 

Now…what I am saying here is that whether or not you drive, there will be others on that road. If you aren’t driving, you are still at some risk of being run over as a pedestrian or of getting in an accident no matter who is driving. Correct? You may not be as responsible personally when you aren’t behind the wheel, granted. So you could avoid blame. But harm, no.

There are probably a range of reasons why people kill others while they’re in the driver seat. I am guessing they have names in laws, but range from intentional murder/assassination to irresponsible (drunk/tired driving) to medium skill level given tricky circumstances (e.g. someone jumps ahead of u and ur reflexes are too slow, or icy roads or such) to things really not within the driver’s control.

My Analogy w Digital Literacies and Facebook 

Bear with me here and don’t blame Mike coz I just took his metaphor and used it for something else entirely.

I think Facebook has (as far as my knowledge goes) done some intentional harm in terms of fake news during US elections. For which it should be accountable and for which it should take responsibility.

I think there’s a lot of irresponsible behavior on Facebook by individuals. Posting things w/o checking its sources, posting mean things, bullying, creating negative social dynamics. There is also a lot of low-skill mistakes. Like not realizing even after you read a post that it’s not credible. Ok?

So now I want to say two things:

  1. Teaching people to detect fake news, focusing digital literacies on information literacies is important but only addresses the symptom. That will solve some problems of people who are normally responsible but didn’t have the skills
  2. The irresponsible people or those who intended harm won’t benefit from the digital literacies piece. Their problems are more deep-rooted

Facebook didn’t create people’s extreme political views, it didn’t create intolerance, or hatred. It gave people room to express them to wider audiences when before that, they were private or semi-private thoughts/expression. Because so much of it is public or as public as social media goes, people find echo chambers that help them believe they aren’t alone and helps them keep going, fuels them.  Sometimes to dangerous levels like recruiting terrorists.

Social media didn’t create any of these monsters. These monsters would have found some other medium one way or the other.

And so back to driving. It kills people. But for the most part, it doesn’t kill people. It doesn’t exist to kill people. Neither car manufacturers nor government building roads want roads to kill people. And still, as a person driving a car you have choices. Which car to ride. Which road to take. How responsiby to drive and how to react to other drivers not within your control. So much is not within your control.

Facebook isn’t as innocent as the car/road manufacturers.

But we, as users of the Internet and social media have to be aware of how much is within our control and influence and how much is not.

For the most part, I don’t fool myself about Facebook. It’s got some sinister behavior w some really weird, probably sinister intentions. I used to be more naive and am still quite naive, but I am more careful w how I use Facebook. But Facebook, like driving, gets me from point A to point B. My Egyptian PLN isn’t (mostly) on Twitter. It’s on Facebook. If I left Facebook my entire PLN would be Western-based. I couldn’t have survived 2011 w/o Facebook. I may leave sometime. I’m not married to it, and Mastodon opened my mind to the idea of someday having social networks of our own, without algorithms and commercial/political interests of others. At least we could set our own. Someday.

But while we are on Facebook we have some amount of control. I (mostly) don’t check the algorthmically decided timeline, I just check my notifications (reverse chronological i presume). I do the same for Twitter. 

I understand that exposure to headlines that are fake even if we don’t click on them may be subliminally influencing me. I get that. But the problem is much deeper.

People who want to leave Facebook because they don’t like what people are saying on it? Those people EXIST. Half of the US voted for Trump (even if he had lost, that statistic would have been similar). Same for Brexit.

The problems are deeper and they’re in our societies and they are HUMAN problems. They aren’t digital. It’s just that digital is the medium of our time, and so the shape of our human interactions are influenced by it. But the ugliness and ignorance are there and they are real, and it isn’t because of one guy called Zuckerberg. 

During Egyptian political upheaval we had similar controversies on Facebook. People unfriended each other in droves. But you know what really matters? The conversation we can no longer have at dinner tables because people’s views are so divided and no one wants to listen to the other. 

And I don’t want to lose sight of what Facebook currently does to help me connect with people. For the most part, I tolerate it because it has its pros. When I find alternatives or its cons drive me nuts enough, I will leave. Or they may kick me out like they did to others. You never know.

 i have to go. This isn’t fully finished… But partway. Willing to listen to critique 

December 29, 2016
by Maha Bali

Favorite Education Videos from 2016

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Here are some videos I watched in 2016 you don’t wanna miss (playlist here if you don’t want the annotated version below)

  1. Ruha Benjamin’s ISTE keynote. Hands down the best keynote I have watched this year. It’s like 4 keynotes in one. Concept of discriminatory design stuck with me most.
  2. DML 2016 Ignite talks (& day two). This is a series of talks, almost all of them really powerful (incl Kate Green, Christian Friedrich, Robin DeRosa, Remi Kalir and more). They’re available as separate videos but I like them together, and if you’re interested in seeing Gardner Campbell warm up the crowd with dancing…(I heard from several people that Gardner worked to prepare the speakers really well…and it shows! They were amazing).
  3. Amy Collier’s DigPedCairo keynote (even though I watched it live; this link isn’t on YouTube but should work) really made me cry and I will always remember it for that. And for inspiring me to assign my students a “develop your own learning taxonomy” blogpost 
  4. Josie Fraser and Mark Summons for me was a favorite closing Plenary at OEB16 where they used the human spectogram (one of my favorite workshop type activities) to open up discussion about people’s opinions on digital literacies. I just watched that this morning and really enjoyed it. Great to know it’s been done at a conference Plenary as I am a fan of hacking conference formats. They asked really good questions and participants had really insightful responses across the spectrum
  5. Closed Doors. TEDxCairo Women talk by Nahla Al Nimr (Arabic). I won’t spoil it, but a life changer for me
  6. The panel on ethical online learning that took place as a UMW townhall just before OpenEd16, with the likes of Kate Bowles, Sean Michael Morris, Liz Losh and Alan Levine, facilitated by Jesse Stommel, you can imagine how rich that conversation was.
  7. Workshop at DigPedLab UMW Inclusive Globally Networked Learning (by Kate Bowles, Paul Prinsloo and myself) followed by a VC Hallway conversation w Chris Gilliard, Annemarie Perez, Sherri Spelic and Miriam Neptune as first-time onsite buddy. 
  8. #digciz week 3 for its timely discussion of the role of critical digital citizenship in America following police violence against African Americans
  9. Should edtech have an Ethos? by Jim Groom and I at AMICAL because it was the first time I could speak so critically and freely in front of my colleagues 
  10. ePatients Launch for highlighting the importance of engaged patient behavior as a form of citizenship 

Not talks but great short videos to use in teaching:

  1. Microaggression: what kind of Asian are you (thx Bonni Stachowiak) 
  2. Digital privacy: Mind-reader reveals His gift (thx Nadine Aboulmagd) 
  3. Decolonizing SOAS: Student Perspectives (thx Paul Prinsloo) 
  4. Ken Bauer’s video explaining how to create Google hangouts w new YouTube Live! That was a life saver for vconnecting 
  5. Systems of Adversity TEDTalk by Rusul AlRubail
  6. Ryan Derby-Talbot TEDxTalk on first-person learning in mathematics 
  7. UpFront TedTalk – new approach to thinking of generosity as a keynote speaker
  8. This silent video on schooling/deschooling shared via Facebook: Alike (thx Caroline)

Wow, that’s a lot more videos than I had originally intended (I used YouTube history to help job my memory. Didn’t uhh realize it went THAT far back!)

Again, here’s that playlist

December 26, 2016
by Maha Bali

On Noticing Absence in Algorithms part 2

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This post comes mins after the previous one on noticing absence. After I published it I realized I had a couple more things to say..but I think they deserve their own post. I may or may not finish it right away.

This one is about computer algorithms of the kind we talk about a lot in edtech. I am reading Weapons of Math Destruction by Cathy O’Neill (i was heading off to continue reading it then had this brainstorm).

Let me repeat this piece of information. I studied Neural Networks as an undergraduate and my computer science graduation thesis was a neural network (with population-oriented simulated annealing as a genetic algorithm to optimize it, but never mind). I say this because those algorithms that are “black boxes” to us are some evolution of this now almost 15-year old concept I used to know.

Here are thoughts on absence 

  1. Yes. The programmer who wrote the code doesn’t actually know how the algorithm processes the information. Because the programmer doesn’t tell the system what to do with the data. It allows the system to learn from the “training set” data until it’s good enough to then work with “real” data and get sufficiently accurate results. It’s complicated to understand and explain. But believe me on this one. They really don’t know. I mean someone could probably trace it but it wouldn’t be humanly comprehensible, for the most part. I know there’s more to it than what I studied 15 years ago and fuzzy logic and stuff, but the basics are the same because I continue to find this in everything I read 
  2. How on earth did they teach us this stuff and not once had a discussion about ethics of it? I wonder if they do that now, or if computer scientists are meant to be asocial amoral human beings? All the ethics we were taught was about intellectual property. Seriously. 
  3. What matters about bias in algorithms are three things,imho:
  • The training data you give it can have bias/absence. E.g. if u r trying to predict breast cancer survival and u give it only data from white women in Wisconsin, it will probably not work if breast cancer behaves differently for non-white women, or outside Wisconsin). Moreover if u give it human results to adhere to, and those results are biased, it will learn that bias. An example I heard recently related to hairstyles and how googling something like appropriate vs inappropriate hairstyles produced racially biased results. Because apparently Google learned from clicks that people tended to prefer certain results
  • Programmers have some choice over which dimensions of data to feed a system to learn from. Take this scenario from my head. If Amazon (which in reality btw seem to have a straightforward non-black-box stupid algorithm that seems transparent to me) wanted to create a smart algorithm to give u recommendations, it can choose whether or not to take into account other books u have bought, who else bought those books, what else they bought (it already does this) but it also has a choice to include book reviews you wrote about books you DIDN’T buy through Amazon (it currently does not, I believe). It could focus on what price range you usually buy (and keep recommending cheaper books if u tend to buy them – it may already be doing that). It may choose to record dates and in which case it might recognize ur xmas shopping patterns differ from usual. It may record ur postcode and recognize when an author was visiting your city for a book signing. Whatever. In any case, it may miss an important factor. Or include an insignificant factor. And feeding those into neural networks may or may not cause the network to create false correlations. I remember a teacher who once found that student clicker numbers correlated w grades or something. I said probably the ones in front row have similar clicker numbers (coz distributed from uni to them for that class together) and are good students 
  • Programmers have choice over how to optimize the network and when to tweak it. How much human agency to let in. Cathy O’Neil’s book and Facebook’s algorithm both made me realize how often we seem to be asking people to conform to the algorithm vs judgment and agency of people. And that’s the worst thing there is, really, for me.

At OEB16 (I watched some recordings) there were a couple sessions on AI. A debate on whether Artificial Intelligence could replace teachers, and a keynote talk or such by a German, Tarek Besold.

Donald Clark listed features of a good tutor then ticked off how they could be  done via AI. Tarek did similar things with creativity and teaching again.

Neither of them accounted for things like human connections, empathy, feelings, social interaction as important aspects of a teacher-student relationship. Tarek didn’t account for enjoyment or self-fulfillment in creativity . 

When we focus on cognitive, measurable aspects of what teaching and creativity are, we help ourselves imagine them as replaceable by machines. When we remind ourselves that humanity has many more dimensions than cognitive, that there are emotional and social dimensions and that there is agency (as Nell Watson said in that AI debate), that is when the conversation becomes meaningful and the answer has got to be no. Machines won’t give you hugs and life you up when you’re down. A human behind a machine might, though. 

I remember the excitement a few years ago over automatic grading software (esp w MOOCs). The problem for me isn’t whether the tools are accurate or resemble any teacher’s actual grading but:

  1. The inhumanity of asking students to write for a machine audience! If what we want to do is machine grade students writing then we aren’t asking them to write anything meaningful in the first place. Absence of a purpose or understateding of the rea goal of a writing assignment. 
  2. The inhumanity of forgetting the importance of emotional aspects of giving feedback and the impact of those conversations on students’ confidence, motivation, wellbeing 
  3. The often ignored aspect that a teacher needs to grade hundreds or thousands of a certain assignment for the machine to learn their approach. First of all, I almost never assign the same assignment twice. I tweak it and often change it drastically each semester. For good reason. Even if I had 1,000 students this semester and that was enough training data, it wouldn’t work next semester. Even if i didn’t change the assignment, I might actually evolve the way I grade. I actually LEARN from reading student assignments and I learn how to teach them better. Machines, analytics, they may give me partial perspectives on that, but very partial and predictable according to what someone else told the algorithm to look for and look at, and what some training data told it was the right way to weigh that data. I would rather trust my own judgment 

I need to stop and sleep now 🙂 or read a little of that book that got me on this track!

December 26, 2016
by Maha Bali

On Noticing Absence (also #OER17)

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These days I am thinking a LOT about noticing absence. This is inspired by 3 things: a quote from a book, my child’s response to another book, and my teaching this semester. It’s making me wonder if this might be relevant to my future teaching and OER17 keynote.. And vconnecting. 

A. The quote

Here goes the quote by Boris Vujicic:

There is a tendency to think a glass can be either half full or half empty. But there is a third option; the glass is always full. It may not be full of a liquid but what is not liquid is [gas]*. We usually measure only what we can see. The truth of the things is often hidden from us, like the invisible [gas] that fills the glass” ~ Boris Vujicic (in his book, Raising the Perfectly Imperfect Child)

Good quote, right? It has lots of resonance with ideas of invisible things that matter. Hidden curriculum. Absence of women and minorities in academia. Absence of certain search results if an institution is blocking access (digital redlining). Absence (or lack) of content in certain languages on the internet. But also, when absence is indeed a thing that is…well…present. Or meaningful. Like silence. Silence in dialogue need not be a negative/bad thing. Nor is it necessarily one thing. Silence can mean agreement (in Egyptian colloquial we say silence is agreeing) or it can mean resistance. Or it can mean reflection. Or it can mean mourning together (moment of silence). Or it can mean a shift from one direction of conversation to another. Think about how in education we “measure” participation by the frequency and quality of someone’s talking/writing and almost never by how wisely they choose to abstain from talking. Think of all those annoying ppl in committee meetings who would make everyone feel better by their silence. Or absence. Will come back to this in the 3rd section

Thinking also of whitespace in visuals. Whitespace is IMPORTANT. The absence of too much stuff on a page makes it better, more beautiful sometimes. And there are ads that even manipulate the whitespace to make it more prominent (will find that link).

Also thinking of babies (held a baby for a while the other day). That age where their teeth are absent is adorable. I also remember the first time a child bit my finger and I realized how precious that absence of teeth was with younger kids.

I’m stretching the analogies here. Fyi, the author had a child born with no limbs, but that child went on to live a very successful and fulfilling life. So I guess he’s talking about how the absence of his kid’s limbs at first made him and his wife feel as if the kid is born “half of a person” but that in some way, a different way than limbs, his life became full and fulfilling. Just not the same way other kids. I assume people who have kids w disabilities have similar philosophies. I don’t have the exact same situation but I have important aspects of my life and loved ones that aren’t “perfect” or “normal” but in many ways I realize that the absence of normalcy is filled by other things. And that, in fact, if I had had normalcy in those aspects, other aspects may be missing. Thinking of the child without limbs, and thinking of someone like Stephen Hawking who pretty much has one of the greatest brains but very limited body function – anyway you get where I am going with this.

B.The Book With No Pictures 

Whitney Kilgore sent me a book by B.J.Novak earlier this year with that title. For my little one who is now 5. I honestly thought Whitney was nuts. But I read it to my girl immediately and I discovered these things 

  1. The book encourages parents to make silly noises while reading the book. Reading that book made me realize I hadn’t been reading other books in a very animated way. I noticed the absence of that in my reading approach to my child. I do much better now.
  2. The book also has large font, colorful in some parts,and LOADS of whitespace, and this somehow got my child interested in reading coz the absence of pictures made her realize that text was supreme. Or something. She learned to read her first word “no” sometime when we first got it. She hasn’t been learning to read very fast in general and seems to get confused between lots of letters, phonemes, and wheb text is close together. Now she is older, we read this book yday and the large font, sparse text, seemed to encourage her to try reading more. Keyword is try. She tries much more in this book than other books. She loves the “Little Miss” books and tries to read (they’re too advanced for her, I think, but I read them to her anyway because I find it silly to read a bedtime book that’s just one-word below a picture of an animal – wanna read stories). Anyway. So that book with no pictures rocks

C. Absence in class

I have had one of my best semesters EVER. In terms of teaching. I need to unpack this because during the semester I had a few sessions with high absence (because of a student strike on campus once and heavy rain on another day). It threw me off a bit because I usually have good attendance and the absent students (even the ones with a couple of absences outside those two days) were usually engaged when in class. But paying attention to absences helped me get to know individual students better and by knowing them, better understand the complex realities in their lives that made it difficult for them to attend every class. It was also important to notice how students who were still learning to write in English struggled to submit blogposts on time, but were able to do late submissions that were halfway decent. Because they needed more time (duh. How unfair is it to assign writing assignments to people knowing they have different capabilities and expect everyone to finish at the same time? I’m the one who talks about inequality in assessment all the time; I should either allow them to submit a different format sometimes like a video, or give different deadlines somehow).

Another thing I want to talk to students about is social absence. This is a term I use for online learning to counter the “social presence” narrative. Sometimes u have to be absent. Online, people can’t know for sure if you’re there but silent or completely absent. And so if you’re in a social situation where others are expecting you to interact but you need to be away, the “social absence” thing is to let them know to expect you to be away for a certain time (like automatic email responders, but for social media or LMSs – only not automatic coz those suck).

Which brings me to vconnecting. We have a pretty active Slack community for planning events. And it helps if we know who is and isn’t available to help out at certain events, when they’re able to work on preparations like inviting guests and writing the blogpost and creating the hangouts…when they’re available to run hangouts, etc. Onsite, it really matters who is present and who is absent and some absences are tangible. Like I am so glad we got Alec Couros and George Siemens and Audrey Watters and Kate Bowles and Tressie McMillan-Cottom on VC this year. Their absence from VC was palpable for me. I am also glad we had sessions with students, grads onsite, undergraduate online (well Andrew, but it’s a start). I am glad we notice if our guests are too monolithic (all male or all white for example) or if we are missing certain important voices (and w sometimes do missed conversations for that). 

I am also keenly aware of who is absent on Mastodon vs Twitter vs Facebook and just how the extra character limit of Mastodon allows me to tag more people into a conversation and still have a bit left over to actually write stuff!

So yeah. Absence. We should start noticing it more 🙂 Not that you didn’t already know that 

[added later, after my post on algorithms – if data analytics on an LMS doesn’t account for circumstances in students lives, then, based on my experience this semester, it can’t really tell me why some students aren’t doing well. At all. It can’t possibly account for such complexity without human intervention). 


*I used [gas] instead if the author’s original “oxygen” coz the scientific inaccuracy was distracting me

December 25, 2016
by Maha Bali

You Can Only Sit Beside Two People at a Time

Reading Time: 3 minutes

One of the things you discover when switching between online and f2f networking is that you get to make some difficult choices. I know this one is funny, but it’s also a real dilemma. You know, when you go to the movies with your friends and you get to pick whom you sit next to? Unless you’re part of a couple, you usually get to pick two people to sit next to. I like to talk during movies and that’s something some people love and others hate. So I usually wanna sit next to the people who will talk with me and share my sense of humor. I feel that way at conferences also. I like sitting beside someone I can talk to. Rude? Well we tweet anyway during a keynote and occasionally we do snarky subtweets (I rarely initiate but occasionally participate in those). I remember at ALTC I was probably sitting next to Rebecca but we were tweeting with Martin Weller, Ashley and Sarah (all of us in the same room) and probably someone who wasn’t in the room…

When you are on Twitter you can broadcast your backchannel or pick a handful of people whose Twitter handles fit and others can jump in. But in person, you can only sit beside two people at a time during a talk. And you can only sit with a few people at a roundtable at a time. And it’s limiting.

When f2f at a conference… Do I go to THAT talk where I am interested in the topic, or THIS talk where I love the presenter? Do I go to meet new people or strengthen existing ties? Do I go to the talk with my crowd of people coz they’re all going to THAT talk, or do I stay in the hallway to chat with different people? 

The good news is…sort of… I don’t really think I will have many opportunities to make those choices at #oer17. For one of the keynotes I can’t sit beside anyone as I will be speaking inshallah (!) but I hope to walk around and be close to many people. I have two accepted sessions, a 20-minute one w my vconnecting buddies and a longer panel…and all these have to happen in one day…so I am probably not gonna have loads of free time except like…lunch time and maybe 1-2 conference slots. I just hope all the sessions I want to attend aren’t happening during ones I am presenting!

And hoping to get breakfast and alcohol-free dinner time with friends.

Who frets about such things? I do. Because f2f time with people is precious to me… Because it’s so hard for me to get there and I want to make the most of it and I want to have DM in person with a lot of people. As in, I want in-depth private time with friends. 

I tweeted recently how I felt saying no to a keynote-type invitation. I have said no to all-expenses-paid engagements something like 4 or 5 times in the past couple of years. It gets harder each time. Because there are more people I will miss meeting. And there is also the sadness of recognizing the people who value my voice as an Arab/Muslim woman in a variety of fields (I have been invited to talk open, digital pedagogy, intercultural learning, educational games, digital Humanities – different things,  yeah?) and then not being able to be there to represent… That hurts. When I could, when it wasn’t a keynote invitation, I have suggested others, or suggested working on hybrid presentations with others. And that’s been cool. But it ain’t the same as being there, of course.


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